When you create with your partner deep inner connection, your type of thinking will change. You diverge from thinking about yourself and your own welfare and open the way to thinking about how you can make each other happy, how to achieve your best potential together.

Of course, it is appropriate that both partners have this approach. A more spiritual approach to the relationship can thus help to see the relationship from a more conscious perspective, to deepen it more and to unite the partners. Below we offer several methods how deepen the partnership and get closer to your partner not only by your body but also by your heart.

Ways to create a deep relationship

1 Understand that your meeting is no coincidence

To bring your relationship to a deeper level, you need to understand that your meeting and relationship is not just about giving and taking, it's about having each other on your own path. Respect for this will help you understand the meaning of your relationship and its deep connection.

2 Try to give yourself the best of yourself

Even in a healthy relationship, there are times when we can feel lost, under the influence of a partner. A moment when we wonder if we really are still us. This feeling, if isolated, can help us find more. However, if it takes longer, it should be an alarm for us that something is wrong. Whether you really go in the direction you want to go.

In a true deep and spiritual relationship, partners have no need to bind and control, respect each other, and express themselves freely within their relationship. If the partners are equal, they help to create a space full of respect and tranquility, so they can focus on bringing the best of each other.

3 Develop yourself

In a spiritual and deep relationship, partners understand that by being together, they can complement one another. But it is impossible to work on yourself. We need to work on our own development, and also how to discover a sense of wholeness within and through it. For once you feel emptiness and fear within you, there is room for self-healing. And in most spiritual relationships one of the partners naturally follows the other. As a result, the relationship consists of two individuals who understand that in order for a relationship to be healthy and deep, it is also necessary to work on yourself.

4) Leave the past

We all have injuries from past relationships that need to be treated. Either you can have deeply hidden hatred, a feeling of betrayal, a feeling of harm, regret and similar feelings. Or you can, especially for your sake, forgive everyone in yourself and let all the wounds go away. In order to create a deep spiritual relationship with your partner, your heart should be open with a past.

5) Accept your dark side

Relationships can be challenging because they often reveal deeper darker things inside us that we desperately try to hide from the surroundings. On the contrary, the spiritual relationship requires that you accept your dark side as your own. This is the way to accept yourself, even with all the shortcomings. That's you.

Of course, revealing this site can result in conflicts, but these are a natural part of getting to know each other's sides, even the dark ones. Mutual support and respect extinguish these conflicts.

6) Changes are natural

Just as you change and develop over the course of your life, so does your relationship. It may change circumstances, conditions. Deep relationship partners respect these changes. They respect the other and support it with the heart, do not use emotional blackmail or manipulate a partner to satisfy their ego (I want you to….).

7) Touch each other every day

Touching and intimacy are extremely important to every relationship, creating a stronger link between partners. Moreover, in the spiritual relationship, touch helps to develop high spiritual energies and thus creates a harmony between mind, body, heart and soul.

8) Treat your relationship as something special, sacred

As we cook crystals and bathe them in the light of the moon, we should pay the same attention to our relationship. Planning fun activities, preparing nice surprises for a partner, helping each other, massage when a partner didn't have a good day… it strengthens and reinforces the relationship.

9 Create your rituals

Joint projects and spiritual connections strengthen the relationship. Also the common rituals are excellent. Whether it's a common sacred dance, a common dinner without a TV every day, a common day without children once in a while, planting a tree, overcoming fear together - it all brings partners together and promotes intimacy. Also, joint meditations in sacred places work perfectly (may be recommended by Honza Kroča - see video below), or a common affirmation of the relationship through ring dance for the djembe and shamanic drums. There are countless rituals and everyone will surely find his own.

10) Love

Nothing lasts forever or spiritual relationships. But what lasts forever is the benefit of such a relationship for your soul. It was sent here on a mission, and that is to learn to love, to accept in its entirety. It is important to understand that everything that happens to you in life, everyone you meet - none of it happened by accident, everything has its purpose - to move you further and teach you what to learn. Accept your relationship as part of this journey, learn to love yourself, and then bring this love through the world to the world.

Tip from Sueneé Universe

Shamanic drums

With and without different hand-painted motifs, the drum can be ritualized with a common symbol and then ritually played to support the relationship's energy.