Nammo, with your partner Kushi, you're dealing with relationship counseling and helping other couples get through a more demanding partnership. Relationships are a topic that you have been doing for a long time. You have heard various life stories of men and women and offer your insight into the situation. Why do you think it is sometimes important to hear the opinion of an uninterested person?

Listening to an uninvolved person's mind can be very valuable in case of ongoing disagreements or long stagnation, for example. Sometimes, it is very difficult to perceive personal topics clearly. There are many powerful emotions in the game that obscure reality like smoke glass. Partners are easily intruded into a vicious circle of screenings and accusations, are convinced of "their" truth, and the power does not occur to them that the truth is twisted. This is part of our work. We bring our insights into the situations and the greater the clarity. We bring both partners away from destructive projections back in front of the mirror of their own themes, which may not be pleasant, but will bring the expected shift and in the relationship will restore the environment in which bloom and intimacy can blossom.

External is the reflection of the inner, and it is therefore necessary to prepare for the mature partnership to come at all. If a strong relationship comes in, the person will appreciate the preparation very much because it usually starts a shift to much deeper levels of knowledge and that's a good ride. People pray for spiritual partners and allied souls, but perhaps they do not actually prays for knowing the deeper level of Love. And Love is sometimes like wild fire. In such a fire, many remnants of false ideas begin to burn and one can see deeper levels of their own shadows. Can it be the work ... rewarded with sweet fruits?

Never before in human history has it been easier to connect with people around the world. A number of social networks and dating sites create a wide range of options for establishing a relationship. Distance and often not even language are no longer an obstacle. Despite this, many people around the world still cannot find their soul mates. Where do you think Nammo failed?

People generally lose the ability to establish healthy relationships. This is done through the unconscious levels of fear that make them lock into safe, inviolable shells. People meet while staying in touch with the meeting. 

When two people meet and even have good intentions, their injuries enter the game, and if they do not have the training to work with it, the relationship often ends soon. It is the state of the present society. It's not easy to be intimate with your partner. It goes deep and goes to sensitive places. That is why conscious partnership is a powerful means of spiritual growth.

"Some people are alone and can not find a relationship because they have decided at the level of the soul to mature into the state of fulfillment with yourself. They are beings who are well aware of how easy it is to fall into an effort to fill their own holes with a partner, a widespread kind of addiction. Such souls are blocking the possibility of partnership from the higher levels until they develop more ability be alone and be satisfied / filled. Once they pass through the exam, they can really become great partners, "adds Kushi, Namm's wife.

In each of the partnerships, he sometimes storms. What qualities of man and woman are, according to Your experience, the most common source of partner conflicts?

Hm. I think it is immature overall. People are like kids. He thinks primarily of himself and so perceives other people as a means of achieving something. This immaturity also manifests itself as an unwillingness to encounter one's own injuries, so the relationship and partner become a kind of patch over something that is not to be seen. These motivations are mostly unconscious and many people would deny it. The result is fighting. For the relationship to flourish and open space for trust and intimacy, this human property must be at least somewhat consciously grasped.

As the light of consciousness shines in the shadow, the partners find out that sometimes they can come to the other to meet in a non-selfless act of giving or rather giving. Such an act brings to the relationship a whole new dimension of Love and opens it to new possibilities. They both feel more secure next to each other and are able to open themselves to a deeper level of their own injuries. This will allow for further healing in which partners can support each other.

How to work with it? How do we evolve to move towards mutual understanding, not to partner disagreements? 

First of all, it is necessary to look into the shadow human tendencies and recognize them. We are all in ourselves until we change them, and at first the bitter self-reflection is necessary. We tend to possess, manipulate, manipulate, abuse, etc. When they begin to be seen, it is possible to speak and manipulate the stud together with them in the relationship. When the shadows are in the light, they begin to disappear and can replace them with relationships that are more loving. Practically it means that the partners see themselves in tears, see in fear, and it will bring a huge deepening. Then you have nothing to hide from the other. Do you know what a relief it is? You have a lover and also the most intimate partner to life! They both grow up a lot and learn a lot.

We women are by nature complicated by their cyclicality. Over the course of the month, we can "replace" some moods. What many men regard as the whim of a woman's nature is in fact a natural part of every woman. How much do you think it is important for a man to become familiar with a woman's cycle and to try to understand his wife more?

Overall, it is good for partners to learn to understand each other. There is much talk about a woman's cycle, and it's just a certain level of life that is good to know and respect.

"The more the woman is anchored in her essence, the more hormonal influences are softened, and the woman has the ability to decide how much these cycles will affect her. Everyone has their own cycle. Every person is a bit different, every relationship is a bit different, "adds Kushi.

If you sometimes get into conflict with your partner, how are you trying to solve it? How would you recommend to other men to address disagreements in the partnership?

Good question. You know, we don't get into conflict very often anymore, and if we do, it's a matter of minutes before it all dissolves. It's precisely because we've looked at some things very deeply and grasped them. There is a lot of effort and a lot of work behind it. It wasn't always like that in my life. I have already come into a relationship with Kushi, well developed and ready to take the next step. By entering into a relationship with her, a huge amount of Love was released and it began to lead us relentlessly to greater truth. It made us look at the really sensitive places in us. Conflicts naturally arose because there was a lot for us. It seemed (and in fact still seems to us) like initiation into a completely new form of partnership - something that is not very visible in the world. And here I come to the answer.

The path is the same for men and women. Both need to understand well HOW conflict arises. They need to see their wounded places and their shadowy manifestations. These manifestations need to be controlled so that their destructive influence in the relationship ceases. Injured areas need to heal. It requires great strength, courage and self-reflection. I have always felt in my heart that I am interested in the truth. And I was greatly supported by our shared Love, because I knew from the beginning that I would do EVERYTHING to my best for Kushi and this relationship. This was far from the case in previous relationships, and that's why I wasn't even so motivated to really cut off some of my shadows, even though I've seen them before. It's a widespread thing.

People often know what is needed, but they lack determination. Both in a relationship can rely on their decision to love, to manifest love, and it gives them more power to stand up to their own shadow, to say enough destructive patterns of behavior and relationship. As partners see the determination of the other, a great deal of confidence arises between them, and intimacy deepens. Very important is communication and the art of avoiding. The art of avoiding is to put the cards on the table, even if it is difficult. It means to face your own pain and fear and to be willing to show your partner.

We are amazed to find out how little partners talk to each other and how much they hide. How then can they make love deeply together? Can they really? I know it's a big bite and that's why we offer support.

Each person naturally experiences a whole range of emotions. Sometimes we feel anger or anger, and their suppression is not exactly the best service we can show our health. How can we express these emotions without harming our own partner and causing unnecessary conflicts in the relationship?

Hmm. Let me start this way. In the partnership area, there is much talk about the open expression of emotions, whatever they are, especially women. This approach is based on the fact that most people live in a high degree of internal suppression, which is a fact. When such a person begins to show what has been locked for years, it will bring a great deal of life, and it has many positive effects. However, it can also be very misleading, and over time, one finds that far from all his speeches are as authentic as he thought from the beginning and far from all such speeches really support the relationship between the flowering of Love. In time, the next stage will come, which we call the cultivation of the art of discernment. There was a lot of wildlife in my life that taught me about it.

What about expressing the potentially hurtful emotions of Kushi we like to use what we call "controlled catharsis". Example? When the other one does something to trigger memories of childhood rolling, it often rages. We and Kushi are well aware that this is not the other one, and we sometimes get rid of such controlled catharsis. We cram language and express exactly what we can not like children. We have a lot of fun and it's curative. We do not trust ourselves. We found it was useless. Conscious play can be anything without damaging it. But this is the ideal solution, not always capable of it, because as you know and as I said, some places are especially sensitive. I would still like to add that the pain is often hidden under rage. It's great not to be afraid of the other deeply crying when it comes. I have put a lot of tears before Kushi. Angry tendencies dissolve in them.

What do you think is the essence of a healthy and loving relationship?

Knowing the essence, the truth about yourself, which leads to the flowering of love. The self-centered tendencies then disappear and the relationship can become a space of mutual endowment. Two years ago, I was praying for Indian love on one Croatian island for knowing the true Love. Well, the journey started it dramatic and I've been through it before. Now I have a woman beside me, one of them I love the heart - I'm getting up and going to sleep. I am thankful!

Thanks Nammovi for an interview.